But that’s exactly what the 25-year-old got from his wife.
The woman was breast-feeding the couple’s 9-month-old baby at the time.
The nagging got to him and after a quarrel, Tran doused his wife in petrol and lit her up – together with their child.
The child died from severe burns.
Tran’s wife, who was warded in hospital, died from severe burns days later.
The incident happened in Central Vietnam.
Vietnamese police are now investigating Tran for murder.